So, in Honor/Horror of Valentine’s Day, I decided to share with you a few of my own observations and conclusions about dating, romance, and l-o-v-e.
Then, later, I realized that none of you has (yet) done anything to me to deserve receiving such dangerous and potentially pernicious information. Therefore, the kinder, gentler, soberer me has decided to do something more humane: Share instead a few interesting articles on this Topic A.
The first few have to do with why you/we/I/us/them have such trouble with the damn subject.
The next two have to do with what to do about it/them/us.
The NYT’s John Tierney’s very funny Flaw-O-Matic is here.
12 years later, Tierney’s corollary to the Flaw-O-Matic is here.
Tierney discuss studies in re. Flaw-O-Matics here.
Lori Gottlieb’s new book on settling is discussed here.
Gottlieb’s controversial Atlantic article on the subject is here.
May you all find happiness and love. Happy Valentining!







